New moms come in all forms and babies enter their lives from varying sources. Adopting a child is just as exciting, rewarding, overwhelming and draining as the aftermath of giving birth, and the stresses of post-partum. Newborns entering the home, regardless of who gave birth have the same requirements and offer the same challenges. Moms of adopted newborns who choose to breastfeed, experience the same physical, psychological and emotional challenges as birth moms. Preparing a nursery, purchasing furniture, choosing a pediatrician, and buying all the “stuff” can be a 24-hour whirlwind resulting from a last minute phone call, “Hello, great news! We have a newborn you can pick-up this evening or tomorrow morning.” No nine months to prepare, no time to make decisions, no notification to employers, no guidance, help or support pre-planned. Then there’s the emotional and psychological strain, the wondering, the questioning, the not knowing – particularly for first time and inexperienced moms. Adopting moms did not attend classes, have not developed a support system, don’t know what questions to ask and don’t know what answers or who to trust. The exception is the open adoption, however in many states open adoptions are rare.
When adopting a newborn, infant or baby, the pediatrician is the go-to source. His / Her staff and support team can provide guidance, answer questions and ease the transition into motherhood. The medical community suggests adopted babies be seen by the pediatrician of choice within 24 hours of the adoption – when possible. Unless the adopting parent has specifically requested a special needs child, a thorough examination is suggested prior to developing a mother-to-child connection or relationship. The health of the adopting mom is also important. A physical check-up and mental evaluation (check-up) is highly suggested – before or during the adoption process and within 6-8 weeks following the adoption. Birth moms have nine months to prepare for the birth of a child; mentally physically, psychologically, financially and emotionally - a luxury most adopting moms are not afforded.
Home Helpers New Mom Care is here to help. We know your needs, can answer your questions, can help family and/or siblings through the adjustment process and provide guidance on breastfeeding, diapering, feeding and bathing. We are more than helpers and supporters, we are instructors and teachers. We have the skills, training, knowledge and tools needed to make motherhood the rewarding and fulfilling experience you dreamed of. After receiving that much awaited phone call, picking up your new bundle of joy, and making that highly suggested trip to the pediatrician, call Home Helpers. The health and wellness of you and your baby and a smooth transition into motherhood is possible. We offer hourly, daily, weekly and monthly rates. Contact us to learn more.
